Many years ago, a friend invited me to her annual Hanukkah party, a party of more than 50 people. In addition to the pot-luck nature of the gathering, my friend’s one request for the party was that the attendees bring their own menorahs and candles for a group lighting. Although I had celebrated Hanukkah all my life, I had never been at a gathering like this, and when we all stopped and lit our menorahs at once, the effect was both moving and dazzling. In that one house, in that one instant, there was an immediate feeling of connection to the families worldwide who were participating in this same ritual. At the same time, it was visually dazzling, with menorahs from the most humble to the most glamorous, with candles galore lighting up the house.
I have since borrowed my friend’s tradition on a much smaller scale and the effect remains powerful and beautiful. And now I am starting a new tradition of collecting one menorah a year so that my home can always have the look of my friend’s tradition.
Here are a few that are on my list to collect or give:
Created by a furniture maker, the graceful minimal lines from the branch fit the modernist aesthetic that is calling to me lately.
What a wonderful story and tradition. When my children were young, they made their own menorahs with a block of wood, brass pipe fittings and paint. I treasure them.Your words inspire me to make my own out of natural materials that are abundant here on the coast of Maine! Thank you for sharing.
Dana – My children made menorahs which used birthday candles in them. I shall never forget those menorahs and their delight when we lit them.
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